Here is a video that we can all learn something from. It is 43 minutes long but hopefully will change your attitude about pulling people up and playing games with people. The video explains how we are 200% responsible. 100% responsible for ourselves and 100% responsible for others. In other words, fraternal correction is the key and it is done in truth and love. Take the time to watch this video and realize if it works for them, it will work for you.